Should wives allow their husbands to watch porn

Should wives allow their husbands to watch porn
People in general have a preoccupation with sex and sex related paraphernalia. This is one God given gift that would be very difficult to take away from us or for us to lose. Regardless of our station in life, we have that one, tension relieving past time, sex. Save for a physical handicap, there is little that can stop us from exercising our inalienable right to enjoy that gift.

There is nothing bad about the sensation afforded us through the sexual act; our maker gave sex to us; it is the reward for our labors and our efforts as we struggle to survive on this sin ruled and evil saturated planet. Sex by itself is exciting, to partake in it with someone you truly love, makes it even more of a privilege.

God’s intention was for man to go out and procreate, make babies, have children, grow the population. This is the way we do that. We have sex, plant the seed and wait for it to grow. In order to accomplish his goal, God did not have to make it so enjoyable. He could have done anything. He could have given us simple, boring habits for procreation instead of the exciting, tempting one he did. Just the act itself is the reward for attempting to have babies.

So many different creatures procreate in so many different manners, many of them in ways I wouldn’t care to partake. Some barely even touch one another, yet they succeed. No, God saw fit to give man, his prized creation, and an activity that man would greatly enjoy, sex. We have to be as close to being each other as we will ever be, in order to make it work. It is a very personal, very intimate act. God intended it that way.

We were expected to go out and have babies, make the population grow and to do that we must use this beautiful tool God has given us. He gives us an assignment then gives us the tools to make us want to surpass his every expectation. He didn’t expect us to simply use this exciting tool for nothing but procreation. He knew we would enjoy everything about it. I think he made it such an exciting adventure just to ensure that we would multiply. He wanted something we couldn’t resist. An offer we couldn’t refuse.

The tools he gave us are so enticing that we have to go just the opposite direction; we have to derive methods to prevent our success from actually becoming too much of a success. We had to develop birth control. We liked God’s plan, so much so in fact, that we had to do something to slow down the explosion of population that would have occurred had we not had any sort of governor at all. People really took to this sex thing. God hit that one right on the nose. We like it, we use it, we enjoy it, and it works.

As our society continues to grow, expand and increase in technology and knowledge we find new ways to use this gift. We find new ways to enhance it and to make it available.

We promote it, flash it up, silver line it, and package it in many different manners. The gift is so enticing, so exciting that there is little concern about getting too much of a good thing. We cannot have too much of this wonderful gift. Except of course, in that magic 30 minutes directly after partaking in the gift.

Some people, in their creative endeavors, may seem to have gone too far. Their product may seem to be un-suitable for some. Perhaps it is, who knows, it is still the same gift we use for our own enjoyment, relaxation and procreation. When does that product become unsuitable? I really don’t know and I’m not going to try to dictate that fine line at this time. What I want to do is support the safe and equitable use of the God given gift by all.

One of the methods of exploiting this gift is through something called “Pornography.” “Porn” seems to get people riled; it gets people’s attention right away. In short, porn can be defined as anything that depicts any number of any sex, race or color of person, engaging in any variety of different sexual acts. Now, should we watch or look at these depictions or not?

This is still the same gift God gave us all for our use and enjoyment. Sometimes watching someone else perform things we didn’t know could be done can be educational and stimulating. To use a tool like this to trigger the impulse to try to make a baby could be very helpful. If nothing else, just watching should promote our need, or want, to engage. The problem that some have with porn is that it appears to exploit women.

True, if a man watches porn he is looking at other women perform things he may not be able to enjoy in his current situation. So, should a wife allow her husband to view porn? Simple answers include;

1) YES, if she watches also.

2) YES, if she wants him too

3) YES, if she thinks he needs stimulation in order to perform

4) NO, if that sort of things bothers her.

5) NO, if she is a highly jealous woman.

6) NO, if she has concerns about her own physical appearance and performance.

The question of watching porn is not as simple as a yes or a no. Men should never go off to a porn theater without their wife and watch movies by themselves. But to watch a porn movie, in the privacy of your own home, with your wife, could really be an occasional pleasure; something to stimulate interest on both parties behalf.

Sex is clearly the method God has chosen for us to make babies and to populate the world. He has also made that method enjoyable for us. He does not expect us to use it strictly for having babies. Can you imagine, a couple, who have been married for 30 years and have three children, have only had sex three times, once for each child? That’s not the intention at all. Sex really is a gift from God to both man and woman. We should accept it as such and be grateful God has chosen this method for human procreation.

Man has not power over his own body neither does the woman have power over hers. Neither one, by themselves, has the right to say what is going to happen on any matter concerning each other. Should a man watch porn movies? Sure, with his wife’s blessing. Should a woman drink a cocktail every night? Sure, with her husbands blessing. No difference. Porn is sex. Sex is a gift. It is a unique gift intended only for mankind. Under proper circumstances and allowable conditions, we should be able to enjoy it in any form.

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